Letting go is easier said than done. Letting go can hurt you. Big time. But it’s better to let go and hurt now, than suffer all the harm and consequences after.
Let go of the person who makes you feel special today, and guessing the next day. Loving you shouldn’t be a temporary decision. Loving you shouldn’t be taken lightly. Let go of the person who makes you wonder when in fact you deserve someone who’s sure of you.
Let go of the person who sees you or talks to you only when it’s convenient. Let go of the person who doesn’t check up on you or see how you’re doing. You aren’t a placeholder, you aren’t someone just to kill time with. Let go of someone who after a very long time still doesn’t see your worth.
Let go of the person who uses you to caress his/her ego. Don’t stay for attention, but stay for love. Let go of that someone who can never see you the way you see him/her.
Let go of the person who knows you want more than friendship but still is putting you in the friendzone. That person only likes the fact that you’re around and all over him/her. That person knows you’d do anything for him/her. Don’t give the benefits when you can’t even harvest something. It’s always a two-way process. The road goes both ways.
Let go of the person who confuses you. Be with someone who’s on the same page as you are. Yes, relationships can be hard. But what’s harder is when you go after someone who always runs the opposite way. No matter what you do, you won’t be able to catch up. Because if that person wanted to meet you in the middle, you wouldn’t have to spend so much time running and so much time waiting.
You deserve someone who’s sure. You deserve someone who knows what he/she wants. And that’s YOU. You both need to be sure to be able to build something meaningful. You need this balance, you need this foundation.
You don’t deserve to spend all your time wondering whether there’s someone else, or if you’re enough.
You need someone who’s sure of you.
So, let go. Let go of the person who confuses you.