Dear friends, if I haven’t told you anything that’s heartbreaking or crippling, it is not because I don’t trust you or find your support unhelpful. And it’s not because I don’t value our friendship. Forgive me if and when this happens. It simply means I am not ready to talk about my feelings, and my heart is just not ready. I hope you’ll understand me. … Continue reading A letter to my friends for when I seem distant
She did not just wake up in the middle of the night and decided to stop loving you. The feeling did not disappear over hours of sleep. It was a long process. A painful one. From being all over you to just having you around as a routine. From filling her mind with thoughts of you to you just becoming a habit. Maybe it was … Continue reading The day she walks out of love.
Letting go is easier said than done. Letting go can hurt you. Big time. But it’s better to let go and hurt now, than suffer all the harm and consequences after. Let go of the person who makes you feel special today, and guessing the next day. Loving you shouldn’t be a temporary decision. Loving you shouldn’t be taken lightly. Let go of the person … Continue reading Let go of the person who confuses you.
Be someone who loves without leashes and chains. Be someone who loves wholeheartedly and sets the other person free at the same time. Be someone who pushes them towards their dreams, not someone who holds them back because of your fears. Be intense with the love you give as it will eventually ricochet its way back to you. ‘Cause people who love you always come … Continue reading Be someone who loves.
If you’re reading this, who’s the first person you think of? What is your relationship with that person? Is there some kind of intensity to that relationship? Have you ever wondered why a certain connection with someone is so strong and you just can’t explain it? There’s something about them, but you don’t know what. You’re just in sync with your thoughts and emotions. Here … Continue reading Signs you have a meaningful connection with someone
You fell out of love, because? One doesn’t wake up in the morning and say, “Oh my gosh. I don’t love him/her anymore.” If that ain’t lame, then it’s just weak and pathetic. But why do many people use this excuse to break up with someone? Maybe because it’s easy to say, it’s brief — it sums up everything. Like the fling you started with … Continue reading Why “I fell out of love” is the lamest excuse
Many regrets stem from being tongue-tied. Having no confidence at all, being stuck in fear — just not making a move on anything. But is living in the bubble of “what ifs” going to give you an answer? Continue reading What if you told them how you felt?
When your heart’s broken, you can’t sleep. Your mind’s filled with haze, with questions, with fear. And even if you fall asleep, you’ll find yourself waking up at three in the morning just because your heart’s too heavy and you can’t breathe. You then beat yourself up for being unworthy, for being not enough, for being ugly, and for being replaceable. When your heart’s broken, … Continue reading If your heart’s been broken, I hope you love again
I had a meaningful conversation with my boyfriend over flat whites and a piece of chocolate cake, and we talked about how we managed to stay with each other for four years. I’m not much of a relationship sharer, but here’s just a glimpse of it. We’ve been through a substantial amount of jealousy and survived. We’ve had our share of unimaginable fights here and … Continue reading Love the person, not the fantasy you created
I hope you find love that knows no secrets. The kind of love that won’t keep you guessing, won’t keep you worrying. The kind of love that makes you happy not because of the lies that go along with the moment, but the truths that deserve to be known. The kind of love that knows no white lies, for lies are neither black nor white. … Continue reading I hope you find that love.