Signs you have a meaningful connection with someone

If you’re reading this, who’s the first person you think of? What is your relationship with that person? Is there some kind of intensity to that relationship? Have you ever wondered why a certain connection with someone is so strong and you just can’t explain it? There’s something about them, but you don’t know what. You’re just in sync with your thoughts and emotions. Here … Continue reading Signs you have a meaningful connection with someone

Why “I fell out of love” is the lamest excuse

You fell out of love, because? One doesn’t wake up in the morning and say, “Oh my gosh. I don’t love him/her anymore.” If that ain’t lame, then it’s just weak and pathetic. But why do many people use this excuse to break up with someone? Maybe because it’s easy to say, it’s brief — it sums up everything. Like the fling you started with … Continue reading Why “I fell out of love” is the lamest excuse

If your heart’s been broken, I hope you love again

When your heart’s broken, you can’t sleep. Your mind’s filled with haze, with questions, with fear. And even if you fall asleep, you’ll find yourself waking up at three in the morning just because your heart’s too heavy and you can’t breathe. You then beat yourself up for being unworthy, for being not enough, for being ugly, and for being replaceable. When your heart’s broken, … Continue reading If your heart’s been broken, I hope you love again

Love the person, not the fantasy you created

I had a meaningful conversation with my boyfriend over flat whites and a piece of chocolate cake, and we talked about how we managed to stay with each other for four years. I’m not much of a relationship sharer, but here’s just a glimpse of it. We’ve been through a substantial amount of jealousy and survived. We’ve had our share of unimaginable fights here and … Continue reading Love the person, not the fantasy you created